Y'all don't have to reply to this, I just need to get it out of my system. My mother is one of those people who thinks she can get mad at who ever she wants but when she thinks they're not allowed to get mad back.??? My mom just yelled at me for being irresponsible. Well if that isn't the pot calling the kettle black...I'm 21, in school currently looking for a job, so I can move out. My mom hardly ever cleans the house. Our house, that once was nice, is disgusting. There's dead flies and bugs all over the windowsills. I'm the only one who ever cleans! And I'm sick of it. My dad doesn't throw anything away and leaves his trash around for everyone else to pick up. My mom hasn't cleaned her walk in closet in years, yet she complains about not being able to use it. She ALWAYS comes up with excuses to not clean. I'm embarrassed to have people over. Everytime my mom gets some money, she says she's going to use it to pay off her (VERY HIGH) credit card debt, but she always uses it at Target or somewhere else for material possessions. She comes in and talks to me when I'm trying to study and when I tell her I'm trying to study, she gets mad. My grades in school always sucked because to my mom, finding a boyfriend and having friends was always more important than school and I feel like she put that in my head. Of course I'm not blaming her for my bad grades, but I do feel like I would have done better if she was a little more strict with me. When I would come home from school in 7th grade, she would always ask "Did you talk to him?" (Talking about the guy I liked) Before even asking how my day was, what I was doing in my classes, etc. I'm just so fucking annoyed that we had to have a discussion about responsibility just because I left a fucking adult coloring book in my car(which was under a big sun hat and no one could even see it). 😒🙄 I need my own place ASAP😞 I'm tired of cleaning up after everyone else.