Chronic constipation! (TMI, no pics)

Alexis
I've been constipated since I had my baby a little over two weeks ago. I've been self medicating with enemas, laxatives & stool softeners just to get some relief! Now my butt hole is so sore (from pushing hard stools pass hemorrhoids) I can't sit. 
Did anyone else have this problem. I'm a FTM and wondering if it's common. & no worries, I'm going to the doctors TODAY!