I finally felt THE BUMP!!! I woke up this morning on my left side then rolled over onto my back and I always touch and feel my belly in the morning and when I touched it, holy crow it felt like there was a cantaloupe under my skin! And that is the first that I have felt it so defined!! It was a pretty sweet moment!! But then I got up went pee and it settled back down into my hips/back not sure which one just yet but assuming my hips bc I'm feeling it starting to kick down in my abdomen! I'll be 21 weeks tomorrow!!