Anyone else be upset by this?

Question

I've recently had my 9th loss. I went on the depo after and recently come off, but I'm struggling to conceive and having ovulation problems.
One of my friends knows how upset I am. I've mentioned a few times that almost everyone around me is pregnant and I'm really struggling to cope with the emotional pain.
She's expecting her 3rd, and will talk about her pregnancy all the time. Whenever she has a pregnancy related question she comes to me.
But today she's actually messages to ask me if I can look after her youngest next month when she goes for her 20 week scan.
Would this upset anyone else? It just seems like she hasn't even considered my feelings, and she's got a whole month to find childcare so why ask me, and why ask me now?

Answer

Some people aren't good at being sensitive to this or they don't know how because they've never experienced it for themselves. I'm sorry for your loss I know it's tough. She really probably is just ignorant to your feelings

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She is very inconsiderate and insensitive. I would not do that to u! It would be different if she did not know AT ALL about ur ttc struggles and losses. But she knows! Definitely I would not ask u to babysit my child! How can she feel ok about asking u pregnancy questions!? That's not nice. If would be different if u brought up pregnancy subjects and u were open and inviting and asking questions. Soo sorry. Ppl will be upset by me saying this but she is being a little bit of a bit bitch towards u

Anyone else be upset by this?

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