Am I supposed to be okay with this?

Question

So I (16) was on my period and my boyfriend (18) was staying over and l think he was quite horny because we watched a movie and then went to sleep and he told me in the morning that he'd been spooning me in the night and he had been dryhumping my ass and he had a massive boner and he was hoping I would wake up... I think I'm okay with it, but I was unconscious and unaware it was happening so is it not okay? I'm kinda chill with it but I kinda just wanna know everyone else's opinion ???

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If he didn't actually have sex with you while you were asleep, then it's not rape. He was trying to wake you up. But it's not something you HAVE to be ok with. There are still boundaries that need to be drawn. So if you are not ok with it, tell him that if he's horny, to suck it up or to wake you up. To not touch you while you're sleeping. Set boundaries where you think they need to be. Simple as that. 
Personally, I don't care if my husband does this but he's my husband.

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I don't see how this can be something wrong if you're totally okay with it and he's admitting that he has done it..
Besides, maybe he was trying to wake you up and it didn't work, period.. 
It's an interesting way to initiate something and I definitely don't think it's a bad thing if both parties are okay with it happening.

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I would break up with someone over this. #notcute. If he wanted you to wake up, he should've woken you up instead of fooling around with your unconscious body.

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I don't understand...we can't tell you whether or not you're okay with it. You either ardor you aren't

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My boyfriend does that to I think a lot of boyfriends do when the my wake up hard like you with it see if you want it lol doesn't bother me any .. And it doesn't bother you if it did I would simply tell him hey I don't like you suprising me like that trying to wake me up like that and then leave it at that . I like it cause I think it's sexy it's all up to you

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if my boyfriend did this to me, I wouldn't be alarmed at all considering how close we are. but... I don't know your guys relationship so I really can't help you out here. doesn't sound like rape to me...

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It could be rape, but since u don't mind and he told u and he wanted u to wake up to it, I think I would be OK with it

Am I supposed to be okay with this?

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