Why are you here if you just spew hate?
Ok. So. I know these go around. But. It's driving me up the wall the number of "morally superior" people on here. And the downright mean and ugly. It seems to get worse by the day.
Someone asks a genuine question. People feel the need to tell them what a bad person they are for even asking. How dare they! They should be happy their baby isn't dead!
Or someone answers a question, and either the OP or another commenter hates the answer and berates them endlessly.
Why? Why is this a thing?
Why are they here?
Can we make them go away?
Does reporting someone for being "rude" even DO anything?
I know some of them are bitter because they had a miscarriage but why are they lurking on here just to put people down? That seems unhealthy on SO many levels...
I'm sorry some of you have lost a child or know someone who did. That sucks. It won't bring them back to be mean to someone about having a normal worry, though.
And I know you may disagree with some posts. And that's ok. You can respectfully disagree. Or you can privately disagree. Why do you have to start mud slinging and name calling?
It seems easy enough to say....
If you hate what's being said...stop reading. Move on. No need to be mean. You're all making someone who already feels insecure EVEN WORSE because you want to pretend you've never thought of something like "I wonder if my kid will be as ugly as that ultrasound." How DARE anyone have feelings or emotions or thoughts or worries, huh? Or share them with what's SUPPOSED to be a supportive group of people dealing with the same issues?
And I know the same could be said of me. "Why don't you ignore them?"
Because I've been the continuously cyber bullied person who tries to stand up to other cyber bullies and keyboard warriors. Being pregnant is hard enough without having some bitch tell you you're a horrible mom for worrying if your kid is going to be ugly..,or that you're poisoning your fetus by something you ate...or that you're a "fat fuck" (yes, had that said to me ON THIS AP) and deserve an ugly kid and ugly ultrasound photos.
I mean...it's just not necessary. And I don't get it.
Is there anything we can do to make this a positive community about helping each other again?
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