OPINIONS??? Finding out the gender??

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I have my second trimester ultrasound tomorrow at 8am and I'm wondering if my husband and I should find out the gender of the baby tomorrow OR wait until the reveal party (Saturday) and find out with everyone else!?

What do you think?? #firstbaby

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Okay, so this is just my opinion! With both of my children we found out at the doctors office (just husband and I). I struggled with this as well with this pregnancy... And decided to go ahead and find out at the sonogram with my husband, daughter and myself. 
This is one of the most cherished and personable times that I recall when I think of our parenthood journey together. It was just us in the room and he held me and kissed me and just the look on our faces (when we talk about it) when we found out are just priceless. However, whatever decision you decide to make will be sweet!! ❤️❤️

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We found out and were the ones to tell everyone else. I couldn't stand the thought that someone else would know before us!

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My hubby and I found out at the Dr's office last week. We didn't intend to, but the tech let it slip. We weren't upset, it is actually really nice keeping this big secret to ourselves for a little while (until the reveal). Our families and friends don't even know we know the gender already! When people talk and try and guess the gender of our baby, we just look at each other and smile. Either way you decide to go about it, I'm sure it will be special to you

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Will you be able to keep it a secret all week? I didn't do a gender reveal but I don't think I could have waited!

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We found out this morning, but we're not doing a reveal at all because we want everyone to be surprised! Now we have to keep it a secret for the next 20ish weeks lol!! But it's a nice little secret to have :)

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I'm struggling with this too!!!! Bc I really wanna know but I also wanna be surprised at the reveal. The ultrasound is tomorrow & reveal on the 15th. Idk if I'll be able to wait.

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Once you know you will want to tell EVERYONE! Its honestly a lose-lose situation lol you either know and can't say anything or you don't k ow have have that dreaded week of knowing you could know but still having to wait lol With our first we found out and told one person in the family. My husbands grandma. She played the "I might die waiting" card on us lol but she made our reveal cake and it was nice knowing that SOMEONE other than us knew. This time if my husband can make the appt we tomorrow we will find out but not tell the family till we make a cake. If he can't go we won't know till our friend makes the cake.

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We found out and kept it a secret for a week, it was actually kind of fun. I would just say yes to everything (or if one said boy and the other said girl id say they're both right, we're not having multiples) and it drove them crazy. Some find it hard to keep quiet but the way my family is it was a very amusing week.

Obviously that's just what we decided to do, you may find that you want to share the moment privately and then with your friends and family. But either way it's whatever you both feel comfortable doing, I knew from the start I wanted us to know first.

OPINIONS??? Finding out the gender??

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