My mother is hosting my baby shower for me. when she first asked me if this would be alright I said sure because it gave me less things to do. Now after she's paid for everything except the food (it's still a week away) she's completely ignoring everything I want...

I told her a million times that I don't want my sister to come out (she lives in another state will my dad) because my sister has a way of making everything about her. My mother has bought her a plane ticket for her to come out with the excuse that the next day is mothers day....

I didn't want any cliche baby games (baby bingo, don't say baby etc.) And she's only planned those games and the guess how big the belly is game which I am NOT okay with because I don't want people to know how big I am and I don't want people touching me

Lastly she's invited a bunch of HER friends (people I don't even know) to her shower and threatens to cancel the whole thing if I invite my friends who she doesn't like

Honestly I want to cancel the whole ordeal but people have already bought gifts and have gotten off work just for the day.

I really want to just cancel and throw my own so that way I can at least have it the way I want...