So my boyfriend has always been very selfish in bed. All I seem to get out of it is babies. Well this is the first time we've been together an entire pregnancy (long story) and he refuses to have sex with me. He says he can't help the way he feels and I need to understand his feelings. Well what about mine? He doesn't even touch me anymore and it hurts my feelings. This is my last baby and I've had constant issues with getting this far and him being like this makes it worse. I was trying to be considerate until I found out he's been watching porn and masturbating while I'm asleep next to him or in a different room. Am I reading too much into this? He says he won't touch me again until I'm fixed. We even after that I think he needs to stick with his hand.