TOO TIGHT?(please help)

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My boyfriend said I'm really tight, and when he fingers me he can only use one finger. We had sex for the first time and he could only fit in the tip, and maybe one inch past that. We want to have sex again but I need help on how to make it easier for him to fit ALL the way inside me...any ideas?

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Usually vaginal tightness indicates that you're not relaxed/aroused enough. Maybe try a bit more foreplay: have him perform oral on you or rub your clit as opposed to just fingering you

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Just keep doing it but please use a condm

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The more relaxed and turned on you are the easier it is

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I was the same way. But what I did was have my bf go in slow. It may hurt a little but once he starts going at it it should stop hurting. If it still hurts, just have him keep going kinda slow then progress.

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He really needs to get you turned on and make sure you stay relaxed. I had the same problem and it was horrible the first couple times because I was constantly worried about pain and he didn't know what he was doing. Maybe try using water based lube

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Sex and fingering is NOT SUPPOSED TO HURT IN ANY WAY. It feeling like your too tight does not mean you're too tight. It means you're not turned on enough or too tense. It's your body telling you it's not quite ready and it needs more warming up. When aroused the vagina can expand MORE than enough for literally any man. He's not too big. You're not too tight. Just don't rush it and you'll be fine. Warm up a little more.

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Be more relaxed do it somewhere you know you're comfortable. Maybe even open up to him first have a deep loving conversation and then after wards slowly head towards sex street and you'll be just fine 😊

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just one finger at a time ☝️

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I was same a few weeks back, only one finger of my bfs would fit so we decided to try again at the weekends (as I'm really busy during the wk). He can now fit four fingers in, so I think you just have to keep trying x

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Just try to relax your vagina muscles (even though you may be nervous). I had the exact same problem when I started having sex so I suggest trying to finger yourself and then get him to try and finger. It makes it a lot easier for me 😊

TOO TIGHT?(please help)

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