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No, I'm not insecure

I'm not comfortable with my boyfriend watching porn, going to strip clubs, or flirting with other girls. And guess what? He doesn't watch porn, go to strip clubs, or flirt with their girls. And no, he doesn't watch porn behind my back either. By choice, and also because he knows I'm not comfortable with it. I know he masturbates, but I don't care!! We both do.

If you're comfortable with those things, that's cool! Your relationship, your business. I think it's really unfair when other women call me insecure, and to stop being his mom. I see it happen ALL the time on this app. I don't think it's obsessive or unreasonable at all to be uncomfortable with any of the above things. Don't call people insecure and obsessive because their healthy relationship is different than your healthy relationship!!

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