Ugh kinda sick of family not respecting my wishes 😡

Im 39+3. My family knows I prefer to remain private about when I go into labor. I plan to notify everyone all at once as soon as baby is born & will be accepting visitors after we have bonded as a family for 6 hours.... Simple right? Well, apparently not.

Everyone is like stalking me & tracking my movements it seems like. My grandma (who lives across the street from me), says she checks out the window like all the time to see if our car is in the drive way. My mom calls like every single day to see if I'll pick up the phone or she will just come over unannounced. My sister messages me on fb or txts me constantly because she is "on baby watch 2016".

I just wish they'd back off and give my husband and I a little space! Just let me have something private. Its like they're so far up my ass about it that it's causing stress which I know could slow or stop labor. I've been having g contractions & pressure all week and still nothing. And I think it's because of them not giving me time & space to just relax.

Anyone else out there wanting a private L&D?