We had committed to attending a very close friends moms 90th birthday party today. The party is two hours away, he had forgotten his Rec leagues kickball tournament was today so he has decided to go to the tournament and make me go on my own to the birthday. I'm really hurt by this. I told him I believe he's making the wrong decision, there will be other tournaments, it's a year round league and our friends have done so much for us. Plus how is it going to sound when I explain that my husband let his 34 week pregnant wife drive 2 hours away on her own while he plays kickball and gets drunk at the after party? I won't be offended if you tell me I'm being ridiculous... Opinions please!