My son's dad just informed me that his mom wanted to have a second baby shower instead of doing one with my family. It pisses me off because how can you just decide where I'm going to be? Remind you nothing is set in stone about the baby shower that my family is planning and we wanted her to be involved, but she just wants to cut out my family all together. If she decides that she is going to have a random baby shower I won't be there if my family can't be there.