Getting married before or after baby?

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So me and my boyfriend have been talking about getting married before or after the baby is born. I want to get married before the baby even if that means a court house wedding. I just want to be part of his life before the baby comes into both of our lives and I know it's going to take sometime to adjusting with a new baby. Can I get any opinions from you ladies please.

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I got engaged before I found out I was pregnant. When I did find out I didn't wanna get married right away because a baby can make or break your relationship.Luckily here we are 13yrs later expecting out 3rd and we still going strong..However we did wait until our first was about a year and a half..

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My husband proposed to me moothers day a year ago thrn was taken from me for legal reasons in June... I didn't know if/ when he'd come home and when he did we agreed that on 3-16 Wed go down to get our marriage license.. He asked me when I got there if I'd marry him in the courthouse that day.. I said yes! His family refused to go and had a big deal about it..  I couldn't care less and honestly the event is about YOU and your HUSBAND.... If that means courthouse wedding... Go for it girl!

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We are waiting until after, we don't want to make it, we got married because of the baby...more we are getting married because the time is right for our family. Plus we want to make sure everyone is there (we both have giant families) so it just makes sense. I just don't ever want to second guess why we did it or him even think it's the only reason, so we will be married with the new baby by our side ❤️

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Thank you ladies for giving me your opinions. We still need to talk about it but I'll let you ladies know what we do.

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We got engaged in August, picked April 1, 2017 as the wedding date and then found out I was pregnant in November. So we decided that we would just do a courthouse wedding April 1st of this year and still have the wedding next year so our anniversary wouldn't change. But because I was in the hospital things didn't go quite as planned and she was born before we were married. The only frustrating part is that she's called "Baby [my last name]" while she's in the NICU but she has my fiance's last name on her birth certificate.

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We were planning our wedding before finding out.  Now that we're pregnant we've decided to get married via courthouse and change the reception date until after baby is here.

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My boyfriend and I were in the same boat. We decided to get engaged before the baby and focus on the baby for now and have our wedding after the baby.

Getting married before or after baby?

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