So I'll admit I'm a pretty boring person that will jus sit home all day doing nothing active and extreme introvert if you will and my Bd is an extrovert that likes going out, pretty much my opposite but we connect on a mental level. He wants for me to get out more so we can bond in other ways like having fun etc..., is someone trying to change you by wanting you to get out and live or are they just trying to inspire you to enjoy life and live? I'm only 18 and not sure about it?