If you had a son or daughter in their 20s still living at home with you, and they go out to parties until late and all of a sudden are found dead, would you feel responsible or guilty for not setting up rules or curfew for them to follow, which might have saved their lives?? I heard of a woman's 20 year old son who used to live with her was recently killed in a party, and there are people criticizing her for not setting up rules and having him home early and how he would still be alive if she had done that. What do you think? Would you or should you feel some sort of responsibility if you were in this situation?