If you have the privilege to be a stay at home mom and ur husband works 8-12 shifts everyday. What the hell keeps you from cleaning the house?! You guys nag how ur husband does not help around the house , if it bothers you soo much then get ur ass up and get a job! Help your hisband out financially and maybe he wont have to come home exhausted from work! The least a hard working man can get is a clean house and a cooked meal. Im not saying that being a wife is slave work, but neither is being a husband. A man will work 12 hrs a day to support and pay for bills, the car your deive, food you eat, phone you use to probably nag. Clean the house he provides and cook the food he buys!