How was your cramping when you got preg ?

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How's was your cramping like when you got pregnant ? 
I have been cramping the DAY AFTER O+ intercourse and still on and off, different but similar as AF
Then a very strong lower back/side/ lower stomach ache. Surprising. As well as stretchy feeling in my hips / lower belly. 
I'm not trying to convince again myself that I could be pregnant. But I think this is my month. Just staying sane and realistic. 
I know how much our mind can trick us. 
Any feed back or experience of actual pregnant women is welcome. Thanks ladies