Donor eggs bc of guilt??
I have really low AMH and from the very beginning, our RE recommended using donor eggs. We wanted to try using our own material so just wrapped up <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a>#2. My beta test is supposed to be on Monday but it's a holiday (no labs open, not even hospital's) so I'll go Tuesday. Doesn't matter bc I don't think it worked ugh. We didn't make it to transfer on our first <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> 😞
I'm starting to think about using donor eggs and carrying myself ONLY BC why "punish" my husband to a childless life when my low AMH is probably the obstacle to a baby? My only issue against donor eggs WAS that I didn't want to go through actual pregnancy if none of my DNA was involved = using a surrogate would be ideal. BUT we can't afford the crazy cost of one right now & would need to save up, thereby further delaying our dream of having a family.
Is it messed up to be my own surrogate (even though I wouldn't choose to do so on my own) just so we can finally have our family, save on the immense cost of using an actual surrogate, and out of love for my husband? He has never brought up donor eggs and has told me repeatedly that he wants childern with our DNA. He's also not into adoption, whereas I'm open about it.
I feel so conflicted and sad and guilty.
Forgot to add: am thinking about this as we'll do one more <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> cycle. I don't want to repeat the whole thing over again with the same low chance of success, so thinking of the above.
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