I am so frustrated. When I found out that it was a missed miscarriage (on Wednesday) I turned down the D&C because the doctor was so rude saying she doesn't think I can handle it if I'm crying over cramps. I came back & this doctor was explaining that they put you under & it's very fast. Now I can't have it done for another week, all because the last doctor put fear in my mind. I am in the worst pain of my life. 6 days bleeding & my cervix does not want to dialate so who knows how long I'll be in this pain for. Idk what to do they refuse to give me anything besides ibuprofen