So today is my birthday, and yesterday we found out I was having a miscarriage.

So after spending the day garage saling and going out to dinner, we called BIL to see if it was ok to come over. He said yes so we headed over.

We get there and SIL is asleep. The tv was on and we were making small talk, when SIL jumps up, scares nephew, started cursing about how she is going to call us at four in the morning and wake us all up, then heads to her room.

Nephew starts crying I have SO hand him to me so nephew won't wake up SIL, and we continue our conversation much quieter, and continue watching TV.

When SIL slams bedroom door, goes outside, slamming front door, scaring nephew again, screaming about how she's done with everything, and throwing items, slamming doors, pushing over his bassinet, (I was holding him but she didn't know that).

Yes she works at 5 in the morning. It was also 8:30 when we got there, and my birthday, after I had just suffered a miscarriage at 16 weeks, and had BIL permission to be there.

I don't know what to do about her. Nephew is 5 months old.