Grumpy Husband

I'm officially 34 weeks with baby number 2. Our first is almost 3. My husband still refuses to help around the house and says "it's not his job". But if things go undone, such as a bowl sitting in the sink when he gets home or laundry is sitting in the dryer waiting to be folded he yells at me. I can work my butt off but if one thing isn't done I get in trouble. I'm becoming exhausted. This pregnancy is significantly harder than my first.