Fast forward to present day, my husband and I worked through our issues. Not all is lost, and I didn't think it was fair to our son to give up on our family. Not everything is forgiven, not everything is fixed, but each day gets better. 

What I am confused about is that, my husband is black and Native American, I am Greek and our son has a golden tan complexion, with distinct features that don't deny that our son is my husband's child. This woman is white, her husband is Italian. This child that the woman claims to be my husband's look NOTHING like him and everything like her and her husband. He even has the same straight mouth and chip dimple as her husband (my husband family doesn't have those features). She doesn't see it, apparently. She made a statement that he doesn't look like my husband at all and she wants him to start paying child support without a paternity test. no money will leave our home to her without a paternity test, which is scheduled. If it proves my husband isn't the father... Does she apologize?     Do I forgive her? Do I feel bad for her? I'm confused and I secretly am hoping she has a hard time explaining this to her husband, who she already told wasn't the father... Is that bad?? 

Nothing negative about the affair or that I should leave my husband, as none you know us or our family. Just wondering if anyone has had that happen... And how they felt about it.