My cousin and his girlfriend lost their baby when GF was about 7months along.  This happened about 8 months ago. My hubs and and I have chosen a girl name for our baby if it's a girl and I just recently found out it's the same name they were going to name their baby. I am conflicted. We love the name so much, it's always been my favorite girl name. Should we consider another choice of name or just go with our choice? I want to be sensitive to their loss but also want my child to have a name we love. Just wondering what you all might do in the situation? Am I insensitive if I stay with the name?