Advice . . .

I've been talking to this guy for a year and the most we have stopped talking is about two weeks. We go on dates and everything, BUT he is isn't sure of what he wants. I mean we are both young, 22 and still learning. He says he really is trying to figure himself out but I'm getting tired of waiting. I have trust issues and so does he. We were both cheated on in our previous relationships. We disagree, just like every couple and I'm ready to take that next step but i don't want to rush him. I just don't want to feel like I'm here for nothing or just here for entertainment but then again I feel like I'm only wanting it for reassurance.The last time we talked about everything we both agreed that we argue too much to be together at that moment but everything has been fine in my opinion lately . Has anyone been through this? Or should I just continue going with the flow?