My husband works from 8am to 7pm or later every day. When he comes home he wants to hold the baby and for the longest time the baby would just scream and cry. As soon as I held him he'd stop lol. After my husband started spending more time with the baby, he got used to him and stopped crying. I think babies just know who mommy is and they're safe with mommy. I don't think there's much you can do except ride it out. Tell him to stay calm though because babies sense frustration and it makes them more fussy

Teach him what you do. It doesn't come to them as easily as it comes to us.