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My current boyfriend and I just found out he has a baby on the way. The young lady is 7 months pregnant and she waited to tell him 3 months into our new relationship . His love and affection towards me did not change but now she is jealous and wants to ruin him(us) and now he is very stressed because he wants to the right thing which is be there for baby but not be with her because of same reason why they broke up, but I am very worried and insecure that when the baby gets here that he we leave me for his family . What to do when I have been in a situation like this and got dumped for his family ?

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Something I haven't told a lot of people. My SO cheated on me with his baby momma about 6 months into out relationship. And then he cried to me about how much he fucked up and how he didn't want to lose me but he understood if I didn't want to be with him anymore. We were having issues at the time and I had told him to find somewhere else to go, I didn't know if I wanted to be with him when I told him this. He left and ended up there. He was there for 3 days. We have since worked everything out. But I truly believe he needed to be in that situation if he was going to be able to not have any what ifs. He will to this day refer to that as the biggest mistake of his life.. We are over a year now and still going strong. He knows now that he can love his child without having to love her mother, he knows that's not the family he wants, but that doesn't mean he doesn't want his daughter.

Having a boyfriend with a baby on the way is incredibly hard. Even worse if he doesn't quite know what he wants.

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