I'm 32 and super stressed lately

This is my 4th cycle since losing a tube to ectopic pregnancy (3rd ectopic same tube). I am usually pretty regular 28-30 days. Last month I was 35 days... This month I have no idea because I am pretty late. If it was a 28 day cycle I would be 12 days late now. If it was 35 I'd  be 5 days late. Just wondering how late some of you have been with a positive result. We didn't try this month but we didn't not try either. Hoping for a bfp but thinking feeling stressed is making me late. Thanks in advance for any feedback and positive energy!