Because I can't say this on Facebook.

My friend and I have the same problem of people asking us when we are going to have kids. On her end, she does not want them right now Mabey ever. She's got a lot going on and it's not no where near a good time for her. On my end I've tryed for over a year and have not been able as of yet. It's an annoying thing for her and a hard one for me to answer. I get asked all the time. " so are you going to have kids?" Like I have a choice. It was so easy for the people that ask. They don't relize it's not a choice. To them it's something you just do. I'd give anything for that right now as whoiu so many of you. I envy my frend being able to blow it off as just an annoying small talk question but not me cuz it's something  I want and have no control over. My husband always answers when people ask that question with " that's the plan" . I just really really hate that question and I don't even have anyone that can relate. My friends are single or don't want kids or had them by accident . Prayers for all of you out that that can relate.