Used Goods???

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Ok I'm 18 an a few months before my 18th I got a new boyfriend, and I'm a virgin, but anyway we started making out and stuff. One day my mom saw a hickey he gave me (I love having hickeys) she lost it, she said that any if i ever wanted to get married my husband would think I was used goods. Is she right?

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You're a person, not a car. She is definitely not right.

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You are a human being, not an object. Your mom is nuts.

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You have to keep in mind that your mom was born in a different generation than us. The way she was raised was probably a lot different than the way you were. Just because your mom believes it doesn't mean its true. You won't be "used goods" More than likely your husband won't be a virgin either.

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That's just plain slut shaming and one thing I hate most is slut shaming. If you plan to get married one day your husband shouldn't care if you slept with 100 men before him. As long as you're truthful and get tested like a decent human being should he shouldn't care. If him or anyone for that matter in your life cared about your sex life they are jealous and insecure. So what you have Hickeys. What one does with their time does not deem who they are as a human being. Now just because some like to sleep with 10 men or some like to just cuddle it doesn't decrease their worth as a human being. If anyone believes this does deem who you are as a person has SERIOUS self esteem issues.

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Well it's a little extreame.... But they are trashy. The rest of the world doesn't see them as matte or respectable. It sends a bad message and it does tell other people that you're sexually active and proud of it, even if you're not.

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Hickies go away within a week so it shouldn't really matter 😂

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She's insane. She sounds like she's in the wrong century.

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Uh no. She isn't right. Plus my husband gives me hickey's all the time.

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No you are not used goods. It's your body and you are allowed to do what you want with it. Your mother is wrong, don't ever let anyone steer you the wrong way.

Used Goods???

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