Biyfriend troubles..

Me and my boyfriend constantly argue!! It's drives us both up the wall but we're both getting to the point of wanting to split up. He has said before he wants to leave me but he hAsnt. I'm often the one who gets dumped so it's hard for me to let things go with him. There is happy times together but no one in my family thinks he treats me good and has called me a c**t before cause I went out to a bar he doesn't like. He doesn't like that I wear makeup and thinks the clothes I wear are too revealing when I have small tits so there's nothing to be revealed. There is absoluteynno trust in this relationship but Iam so lost and don't know what to do