Seeing why I left this app

I recently came back because I wanted to use an app that I love. There are so many supportive women on here. I would like to think I am one of them. But there are also so many who are not very kind nor supportive. So many of you are actually unkind and rude. I can't believe so many of you have such a rude way to go about things. This community is supposed to be kind and supportive to each and every person. Yet you all bash each other, or you bash those you know in person( sisters, friends, co workers) the list goes on. I am disgusted by this whole social portion of this app. I personally have been struggling with infertility and have been for 8 years and still have yet to have a beautiful little baby. Even still I'm so happy that my friends and family have such an amazing little version of them and their beloved. If you don't have any good intentions for what you are going to say, don't say anything at all. It's like what do we tell kids or what have our parents told us when we had been growing older " if you don't have anything nice to say keep your mouth shut and don't say anything at all" same thing goes for those who are using this app. I've been very hesitant of posting anything on here because I'm afraid of the backlash that come from most of the women using this app.