Hormones driving me insane

I was a uk size 18 before I got pregnant which I didn't care about as it took us nearly 3 years to conceive but I'm not sure if it's the hormones but I've been feeling really down about my appearance.  I've put on 2 1/2 stone and like the majority of women I've become quite bloated in my face and arms especially.  I know it shouldn't matter but it is and I feel guilty for hating the way I'm looking at the moment 😞 anyone else feel like this at all?