life I've been really bad at asking for help or gifts or anything. I always was very independent. So last night, I went online to Target and Walmart and registered for a few cheap things and called it good. This morning I woke up and had a sort of epiphany. I never ask for help. I didn't even register for a bridal shower or ask for any gifts at my wedding, I got a few cards with some money but that's it. This is our first baby. And while I don't care about things, he deserves everything. So I went back and added everything that I could think of that I would want and made sure to send the link to all my family and close friends. I'm feeling pretty proud of myself.