I'm 40+1. Getting text all week from immediate family (who all live close by and will obviously be notified when something happens) asking me when she's coming, anything happening, and telling me things to do to make her come....I DONT KNOW WHEN SHES COMING AND IVE READ AND HEARD ALL THE WAYS TO START LABOR.  this is also my fourth, so I've done this before!  But the best I got right now from my grandma