Why I couldn't go through with the abortion

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When I first found out I was pregnant at 7 weeks and 4 days I thought I couldn't do it. How my parents and everyone would feel. I felt like a giant disappointment. I'm the youngest of 7 and I'm only 19 first year in college. 
I told my family that were pregnant that I was too and I wasn't sure how to handle it. 
I wanted to wait until I was at least 25 with someone who loves me not someone who said he'll pay half to have an abortion. 
I told me parents when they got home from Vegas. My dad told me I threw away my life. I felt like they were all disappointed me. That I really did threw away my future because I have no single moms who made it in life. 
My due date is December 6. The same day my nephew Samuel passed away at 8 months. I felt as if I couldn't do it. I couldn't be a good mother that my child is going to hate me because he'll never know who his dad is. 
I went to visit him in the cemetery and I just cried. A lady came up to me and said everything works out for the best and maybe this is God giving your family another chance in life to be happy. 
I cried for 2 weeks straight. At school I went into the restroom to throw up. And I cried thinking how I can I be a mom. I smoked until I found out I was pregnant. Two girls came up to me. One gave me a letter and the other let me cry on her shoulder. I haven't even cried to my friends because I feel so week if I do. 
I'm scared for the future. But with the help of my family. And my sister coming out of prison after 10 years I believe I can do this. I don't need the one who helped create this blessing. I need people who will be a positive influence in my baby's life.

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My pastor says there are accidental parents but there are no accidental children! This baby has a purpose and God needed you to be his/her mommy!

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God gave you this baby, chose you as his/her mom for a reason. Trust in him. I was 19 when I had my first he's now an amazing 12 year old I couldn't imagine my life without. Wishing you a healthy pregnancy!

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I have never been in this situation but would like to share a little about how I grew up. My sister and I were raised by a single mother who worked as a cashier making minimum wage. My dad was around for a little bit but she decided to move out to get out of a bad situation. We moved to a different town and she sold her car to pay for a down payment on a house. We rode bikes for a few years until we could afford another car. There were some definate hard time but I honestly did not realize them as a child. Only looking back now and comparing my own situation to hers do I truly understand how hard things must have been. She gave us unconditional love and we did not miss a single thing about not having all of the material things that some other children had. My mother is not traditionally "successful" in the sense of getting an amazing career. She works as an assistant manager in a retail store making an OK wage. In my eyes she is successful. She is my inspiration. I cannot fathom how she raised 2 children on such a low income when all things were against her. My sister and I have both grown up to go to college to get our own careers and I am now married and expecting my own child at 31 years old. You are not a disappointment regardless of what your family makes you feel. If you choose to keep the baby you are just going to do your life in a slightly different way. What I would like to tell you is you can do it if that is what you want to do. You can even finish college if you want to. Good luck with whatever decision you make

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I know a girl who had her daughter at 14, and she is in medical school ... Also i had my daughter at 17 great job and Military and never been on any kind of assistance ... I am now 25 with a beautiful smart 7year old little girl who every day I get complimented on for her behavior and level of respect and her intelligence . It's hard but it's not impossible. I am not with her dad how ever I am engaged to the most amazing man and we are expecting our Son around Decmber 6th so stay positive you can do it 💗💙😘

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I have never been in your situation but I have a friend who got pregnant at 15. So of course you can imagine what the family told her. Here it is 16 years later she has her Bachelor degree. She met her prince when her daughter was 8 and he has been her support ever step of the way. Dont ever feel like you cant do anything. Will it be harder yes but you dont need a man to do it as long as you depend on God. My friends family did not help her but she was determined and had a lot of sleepless nights to get to where she is. You be the best mom/dad for that baby and continue to push for your dreams to better you and that baby even if that means work days and school at nights.

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I was about to start my senior year in high school when I found out I was pregnant.  Talk about scared shitless to tell my family/friends!! I wanted to join the Navy or do a college sport, after I graduated, I was talking to a local navy recuitor, I felt disappointed telling him as well. 😁
I finished high school, and took a few collage classes while there as well. 
My husband and I have been together ever since, our daughter is now 7, our sons almost 5, now I'm pregnant with our 3rd. You can do this!! I thought I couldn't, I considered terminating for a brief moment, but now looking at what I have, I wouldn't change it for the world. Good luck! 😊

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I went in not once but twice to try to have an abortion with this baby due 12•25•2016 I've never had an abortion in my life and still haven't I was pressured by the father of the baby even tho we where in a relationship and living together when we found out I cried a lot of things where going threw my head at the time and he just started screaming at me telling me to have an abortion that we couldn't let this ruin our lives everyday he would tell me this even brived me once with trips if I got rid of it I love him and was happy with him and that really broke my heart and with in weeks broke us apart the way he was reacting he even said once he wasn't gonna be able to buy the newest car on the market now and that he had goals and I would ruin them when he has a 2 year old car now smh and after 2 fails at the abortion clinic even after he paid for all of it and me walking out of there I just couldn't do it I'm at 19 weeks and we are in a relationship he is the most excited when it comes to the baby he's working on him self he has apologized for all he put me threw prob not as much as he needed to but I forgave him and things are working out so far so just give it time and if it doesn't work out its ok too you'll have the baby all to your self ether way it's going to be ok

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❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ you can do it. Listen to your heart. Friends are the family you get to choose. So choose wisely and they will help you through this

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I know a ton of very successful single mothers. You can do this and there is a reason God put this child in your life. Keep pushing yourself, stay in school and you and the baby will have a great life together. It was meant to be and you will have this best friend forever!! 🙏

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That's right , stay positive

Why I couldn't go through with the abortion

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