So, my SO has a history of cyber cheating (didn't know when I first met him until I was pregnant with our son when he did it to me). He's been good and went over a year without doing it.

Now we both got new tablet's (kindle fire's which were on sale) which support Kik a few weeks ago. I told him that due to what happened, he wasn't allowed to delete any convos and we can both go on each others and read what was said, to which he agreed.

He see's mine whenever he wants, nothing to hide, he knows everyone I talk to. Last week he point blank refused to let me see his. So I waited till he was asleep and saw that he had 5 new contacts with no convos.

I asked him about it and he told me they were bots -_- so I messaged them on mine and one answered. She told me that he was saying he was single, wanted to f*ck her, she was gorgeous etc stuff he never says to me. But, like him, she had also deleted the convos.

I showed him, he said he didn't say anything like that, she's a weirdo, he just remembered she wasn't a bot but she sent him some weird messages etc.

Now I don't know who to believe because I can't see any proof. I love him but I'm not going through all that drama again especially with 2 young boys who will be affected by all the stress.

Any advice?