So my friend and her husband are getting divorced and he already plans to have kids with his new 23 yr old gf he's 34? Umm wouldn't you want to be with this person for at least a year to start planning on kids? This sounds like the most dumbest decision I've ever heard of, they've never lived together and have been dating 3 weeks wtf?? I feel like he's doing it purposely and making a dumb decision based on anger?? Any mature man would want to get to know the person before planning on kids like who in their right mind makes such a drastic decision, you barely know this person, everything is all good in the beginning but then their true colors come out. Any input?