Friend problems

I know some people don't like younger members complaining but if you have nothing nice to say don't say anything please.

I'm 16 and go to an all girls school but have to classes with boys in them and this year me and one of the guys became really good friends and would talk till all hours every night and he would get along with my other friends too but wasn't as close. He had a girlfriend which I knew from the start and i was fine with it. After a while people started spreading rumours about us which i couldn't handle but he really helped and got me through it and put u with all my panicking. His gf started getting jealous because some idiot told her something so we couldn't talk as much. Then recently out of no where him and my friends are like bff and he pretty much ignores me and as you could probably guess i fell for him hard but he doesn't know but my 'friend' does know but she still like keeps telling me about there conversations which i don't want to hear and they sent me pictures of them in bed together before him and his gf decided to take a break and the gf has no problem with this girl but hates me. So i feel i can't trust her anymore because she knows my feelings for him and she being a major hypocrite to what she used to say and i really don't know what to do. Like do i let him know, do i ignore him back do i say something to her? Some advice please guys cos I'm so confused like it's really starting to get to me😢

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Ma

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i know how that is as well. ignore the gossipers and haters. i ignored them for a long time and everything turned out okay :)

Si

Sinéad • Jun 13, 2016
i guess thats all that can be done i just wont have him by my side to help me this time. thank you😘

Ma

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I would admit my feelings. But that is because I am that type of person and I don't like wondering in my mind all the "what-if" questions that go through my mind.

Si

Sinéad • Jun 13, 2016
i just know though he probably doesnt like me now anyway that he likes my friend but idk what would happen if i told him I'm scared to be laughed at or more gossip to go round

Ma

Mallory • Jun 13, 2016
i totally understand that. I went through that a lot. But at the same time, you may not never get to voice your feelings to him.

Si

Sinéad • Jun 13, 2016
I would admit it to him but I'm scared for the reaction like we were so close then nothing. At the start of the school year I had told the guy i had liked for years how i felt and he ignored me so i dont want a repeat and even though the guy isnt being a great friend at the moment i dont want to lose him