I need to vent!

Hi guys!

Im so freaking mad.

My fiancé and I have been together for 4 years, and just in the past year we split 2 times. Once in June (his decision) because I wasn't working and helping to pay bills, etc. We split for 2 weeks, and in that time I found a great job and got my own place. In December we split again, (my decision) because I felt like our relationship was stagnant, we weren't going anywhere. He didn't want kids, I did. Well we split for 6 weeks that time, and we both saw another person. We started talking again in mid-january, and got back together at the end of January. Well, I got my period right before Valentine's Day (Feb 12th) and have it for 5 days, every 28 days. I've always been regular!

Well, in March I found out I was pregnant. He and I are very excited as our relationship has grown tremendously throughout the past year, going through what we have been through.

The problem is his mother. He visits her house ever so often, and when he does, she's always putting it into his mind that the baby is not his because (and I quote!!) "pregnancy lasts 10 months and if she's due in november that means she got pregnant in january and you guys weren't even back together until the end of January so it's not yours" and refuses to be happy for him. She tells him she can't support or be happy about it because she "knows" it's not his. She even went out of her way to look things up on the internet to try to get him to doubt me. He doesn't doubt me for a second, but I don't think it's fair she do that to him. She's absolutely rotten. I told him that we are getting a paternity test when the baby is born and going to wrap it up in a nice little bow and give it to that rotten woman for christmas and watch her face drop. I can't wait!

It go to the point that I took out a damn calendar and counted back the weeks from the date it was to my last period just to show him, even though he believed me.

She does this all the time and it bothers him more than he cares to let on. He knows I'm here for him and I try not to trash talk his mother (even though there are some vile things I'd like to say to her) but I just don't know what to do anymore. Our relationship is solid; it's her trying to make us unhappy or something. I'm frustrated 😭