To test or not to test...

Anjo •Praying for a Birthday miracle•
My DH and I decided a few days ago to TTC our first child with my next cycyle, that was Friday (6/10) . It's now Thursday 6/16) and I'm two days late. I have a 23 day cycyle with early spotting on or around day 20. Didnt have any of that. I'm trying to hold it together.