YOU ARE KILLING ME!!!

Updates:

PRN means "as needed".. I wish it was porn as Im sure the pay is better..lol

Yes, my husband does not want to move because although I took on extra hours at my "as needed" back up job once he said he wanted this job so we would have the money to move, he feels that he should be the one to come up with the money to move.. its a pride thing I guess. I have tried to talk to him several times about it but, although I agree it should be a joint decision, he feels he knows best because he is the man.. he has never been this way before.. idk.

It amazes me that I married such a child. Maybe God wont lwt me have one because he let me marry one. UGH!

I have always been very supportive of the things he has wanted to do during our 11 years together. He wanted to change jobs so I picked up our lives and moved into a 400sqft hobbit house 2 hrs away from my family so we would be close to his job. I drive a round trip of 63 miles a day for work so we can live here.

He was offered a position doing something that he loves and has wanted to get back into for a while now but never had the opportunity. As long as he wants to do this I am willing to pack up our lives, again, and move with him to be closer to work. I had a friend who is a realtor start looking into places closer to his new job. I even picked up extra shifts at my "back up" prn job so we would have enough money for 1st, last and security.

This son of a bitch just said that he cant afford to get us into a new place so we cant move. Um... what the hell do you think I am working 70 F-ing hours a week to be able to do? He said that if "He" cant afford it, we are not going to do it.

I have tried talking to him about it and he is just brushing me off and getting defensive. Is he affraid to change jobs? Is he having second thoughts? He is killing me because after all these years our number one rule has been to be open about things that effect the both of us.

I am just worried about him and where his head is at. I wish he would just talk to me 😔