So my boyfriend and I have known each other for 18 years. We have been bf's for that long. We both have been married to someone with a lot of money and divorced because of money and infidelity from our partners. We have been officially together and madly in love for 5 years. We had our first child together last year. We have 6 boys combined. He has 1 from his marriage and 1 from his last relationship before me. I have 1 from a past relationship and 2 from my marriage. So we want to get married eventually. I want to get married before we have another child. He want to try to give me a girl/and have our son have a sibling close in age. Our other boys are older. He says we will get married but he wants us both to be financially stable to be able to survive without each other. We have so many kids, if lord forbid something happens to him at work I could do it along. Also he wants to give me the wedding I didn't get from my last marriage and a real ring. My last marriage was 💩. He loves me and wants me to have to world but he wants to do it right and he says he is not going anywhere. Idk... I am really busting his balls about marriage and I don't want to push him away. I'm in school now and I told him he has until I get done with scho in 3 years to get his shit together.