BFF trouble conceiving

My best friend has been trying to conceive for a year with no luck.. I Recently found out I'm expecting my second child. I would want to tell her in a way that wouldn't make her feel worse. For some of the ladies that maybe have been through this.. Is there a way to tell her that you would have wanted to be told? I love her so much & want her to conceive as well and don't want to cause her any more pain!