Would this bug you?

Question

Sometimes I wake up alone, and then find him sleeping on the couch. It isn't an every morning thing. It still makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong, or he doesn't want to be near me. 
Logic says it's because I snore and toss around in myself. 
Emotion and Overthinking says that it's him not wanting to be near me at all
Not sure which to listen to.

How would you feel?

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I'm the one who does this! Haha. If I wake up feeling sick or if I can't sleep and I'm tossing and turning I'll go to the couch so that I make sure I don't wake my husband up all the time. Talk to him about it! He will probably have a logical reason behind it and it'll put your mind at ease!

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My husband does this frequently. I had the same reaction at first and talked to him about it. He assured me is because sometimes he has trouble sleeping and doesn't want to disturb me while he's on his phone or watching TV. Other reason sometimes is he has a metal working shop at home and comes in late and filthy and too lazy to shower and doesn't want to dirty up the sheets lol

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Always listen to logic.

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Some guys go into overprotective mode and don't want to disturb the mamas. It's probably a really sweet gesture. 😊

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Have you talked to him about it?

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I snore and move a lot when I'm pregnant. So if I find my husband on the couch I understand why. I also wake up a million times a night to pee. I would imagine it's hard to sleep in the same bed with someone who is up and down and moving all over all night. I wouldn't let it bug you. He still loves you I'm sure!

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My hubby often wakes to find me on the sofa. Every time is because I couldn't sleep and didn't want to bother him. In sure the reason is the same or similar for your hubby! Don't let it hurt you, he is probably being sweet!

My hubby will come get me off the couch and then sit awake and watch tv with me until I fall asleep again. Maybe do that for him!

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My husband and I are like this but he likes the couch more because the bed isn't comfortable for him.  He always had a sore back in the morning.  I don't mind because he snores anyway. We only sleep in the same house together a few times a week and most of it is together in bed.  Usually if I'm gone he's in the couch

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I used to do that all the time cause my bf snores loud... but white noise helps: a loud fan or an app

Would this bug you?

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