I think me and my long term boyfriend are to different now
I use to love that we were different. He was outgoing and athletic but we started dating in high school so obviously people change after highscool and we both have. I Perseud university and he wanted to work and never was very good at school but excelled in sports. I was good at art, band and phycology. I got a scholarship and he got insecure because I would be meeting new people in university (guys). That was weird but I reassured him it's okay and he works work a company doing landscaping and makes $16 dollars an hour.
So he believe that white straight makes are not privileged in society, that homeless people choose to be homeless, all vegans/vegetarians are snuck up, people who are larger should be called "fat" to let them know they are "overweight" but they can just be a little chubby, feminist are cancer to society, people who go to therapy are "weak" and the worst one! He believes in using the word slut, skank and whore to discribe women.
I disagree with all of these but I try to let him have there opinion but I don't want my children having these opinions! I feel he is uneducated about it that's why. We have argued many times about these. What's a different approach? I don't want to think of him as a dumb but I can't help it sometimes but I never say that to him. What are different approaches I can take with him? We have been dating for 3 years. I am very sensitive to others emotions and life circumstances. I'm on my 2nd year in a social workers BA
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