Really irritated

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So tired of my husbands mom making snobby comments about my pregnancy and my decisions to do stuff. Not felt good this whole pregnancy but getting better and she makes comments like " omg that's pathetic, that's 18 bottles of beer your husband asked you to lift not like it's 24". 
Then tonight I went up to bed and I get told "oh your going on to bed" that's pathetic. It's Father's Day. She could at least stay down here. 
I'm tired of it. 
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Al

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She sounds like a witch!!! Gotta love mother in laws. I'd do your best to avoid her and ignore her. If you don't have to see her, don't. Decline non holiday dinners or gatherings. Maybe she will get the point. 

Al

Alexa • Jun 20, 2016
Oh goodness, that's really tough. Is there an end goal insight? Do you get to move out soon??

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As • Jun 20, 2016
Problem is we live with the in laws so it's hard to just get up and leave.

Ch

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I'm sorry. I know this is easier said than done but try to ignore her. Most importantly try not to let it get to you. And when she got all crabby about you going to bed you should have just said " yup, good night". And smiled. I hope you guys end up in the position soon enough to get your own place.

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As • Jun 20, 2016
Thank you! You sound like killing them with kindness type. Like she doesn't phase me type thing without being rude.

La

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That woman sounds like a giant C.    I'm so sorry you have to deal with such a witch!

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As • Jun 20, 2016
Lol thank you!!!

La

Lauree • Jun 20, 2016
We lived with my in laws for a few months once. Omg I couldn't do it again. I'll pray for your sanity! 😂

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As • Jun 20, 2016
He does but we live with them and he tells me he doesn't like any argumentative situations nor does he want to here the bitching from his mom so he doesn't get in the middle unless he hears her or sees her. He supports me but I have had enough.

Ka

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Ugh, that pisses me off. Sorry you have to go through that!

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As • Jun 20, 2016
I know. Pisses me off too! She has moments where we can go all day and talk and be the best of friends then I'm pregnant and its like everything is cool cause I'm married to her son and I'm having his baby. It's like she thinks she rules the roost.

Ca

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Your husband needs to step in! 

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As • Jun 20, 2016
He did today and said just don't worry about it. Then she got crappy with him and said she needs to be tough.

Em

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I would tell her that her comments are not necessary and she can't stop with them.