So tired of this!

My husband and I bought a car seat that connects to your cat and when the car is shut off it chimes to remind you that the car seat is in the car not because we're worried that someone else could if they have to take the baby plus what does it hurt having a little extra reminder. But now my family is making it out like I'm a bad mom and admitting that i might forget my baby and no good parent forgets their child... I guess I didn't realize that how I choose to parent matters to others... Sorry I just needed to vent