We just had our lil squish june 11th he's barely a week old. Prior to our son being born my husband said after he arrived he'd take 2 or 3 weeks off from his D&D game.

Well that didn't happen and the dungeon master or whatevers daughters bday was saturday after working a 13hr shift and me being up with a gassy fussy lil man i told him i wasn't going and had even told the family we would probably not make it since we JUST had a baby. My husband felt terrible for not going but honestly i felt like being around 10 screaming 1 yr olds was just NOT for me or our newborn.

Well a man i knew well and my husband knew from family events just passed due to cancer. Its been rough on the family. I loathe anything social and right now with hormones being sketchy i feel even more panicky in public. I hate going to damn walmart in the am when there is only like 20 people there. So instead of attending the funeral with me he has decided that d&d is more important....... so i am now on my way to a funeral for a man i respected and considered a damn good friend who i did pictures for his daughters wedding when he fell ill who i have camped with and had many a dinner with, with my 10yr old and newborn after an episiotomy alone.....

Do i have a right to be pissed? I do my best to never step on his right to be happy and have an opinion but this just seems wrong.